We’ve been home for 10 days now and, as it turns out, real life is pretty hard. Of course, having the conveniences of home, plus being able to spend time with family and friends, has been amazing. But as the initial excitement is wearing off, the reality that our “adventure of a lifetime” is over, is setting in. Both Brian (yup, back to our real names again) and I found ourselves having a really hard time focusing, especially the first week at home. I would go into my room to get something for work, but get distracted by the fact that the Q-tip dispenser was low and the lotion dispenser needed to be filled. “Focus, woman!”, I would tell myself before I straightened the picture frame on the wall, and fluffed the pillows on the couch. 🤨 It definitely feels like we are in limbo…I know I don’t want to be walking 20-25 miles daily anymore, but I desperately miss the quiet and ease of the trail. My “to do” list is no longer only 3 items long…flat tent site, water, food. Instead, I feel like I’m being pulled in 30 different directions at once which used to be no big deal for me. I could juggle 10 balls in the air with ease, even poise at times. But now, it just feels confusing and overwhelming. This feeling will pass, I know it will, but do I want it to? Do I want to get used to this craziness of daily life again? Do I have a choice? These are all good questions, without any clear cut answers.
Brian and I have really enjoyed seeing family and reconnecting with friends again, that’s for sure. My friend, Amy, took me to get a pedicure with an added foot massage which was lovely. We were masked, with plexiglass between us, but it sure was nice to have a professional get the 6 months of dirt out of all the nooks and crannies. 🥴 Brian and I also took advantage of our 90 minute massage gifts, which were amazing in a “super painful but good for you” kind of way. The biggest news is that Brian’s sister cut his hair!


We were half way there…the hair was neat and tidy, but the kids wanted to “shear the beard”. So we drove home and they each got a chance with the clippers.




The transformation was remarkable, that’s for sure!! Especially since Brian had a short stubble for about 6 years prior to the trail, so to see him completely clean shaven is quite the adjustment as well. I had taken a picture of Link almost every day on the trail so we could really see how his hair and beard transformed. It was so fun putting them all together!
We are also in the process of putting a few other video compilations together. We took a picture of our tent site every single day, plus a picture of each different PCT sign we came across. We also took a picture of the trail every day which I want to put in order as well. So definitely check in periodically if you want to take a look at those. I definitely have to say that going through our THOUSANDS of pictures (literally about 7,000!!) makes me miss it already. As always, thanks for reading! Amy
you guys clean up so darn well:) Love the beard/hair transformation video. Wild thang! I am sure it has been an adjustment back to home life. Enjoy the little pleasures. I look forward to more writings of your life after the trail. Stay happy and keep on smilin!
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Thanks Steph!!! Hope you and Matt are doing well. You still getting out on the lake?
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Yes, I was out on the lake today early in the morning. It was quite chilly but the moonlight was awesome!
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Absolutely love the evolution of the hair video!! You are so smart to capture that and so many other things every day. Amazing memories. Here’s to keeping that to-do list short and finding the peace and quiet! OMG you have bangs! too cute.
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I know! Bangs are definitely an adjustment too!! 😜
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I bet it is a big adjustment… but isn’t your cozy bed so nice.? I think I would miss seeing the stars. Give it time and you’ll be ok. You two look great, Be safe! 🥰🥰
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As Stephanie says, you two clean up well! Following your “cleaning,” I doubt I would have recognized you on the street–especially if you were wearing the mandatory masks. Now I can get a haircut too!
Thanks for continuing your blog about your adjustments following completion of the trail. Just as preparing for and starting the trail required changes last spring, it’s great seeing what adjustments abruptly returning to “real life” require.
You two are amazing! Thanks for taking us along!
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Hope you are staying safe with all of the fires going on!! 😞
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You can certainly keep your Trail Names among the hiker community (like here). I still have friends that call me Glide.
And Link, wow, you look really different. I would definitely not recognize you now!
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Yeah the haircut and shave was quite the transformation 🤣
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It’s so, so amazing that you captured countless priceless moments that will last a lifetime. Love the video of the hair evolution! 😆 I can imagine that the contrast of real life with the trail is a shocker to the senses. What appreciation you have for the simple, which we often take for granted in our society of more, faster, bigger, greater….. Hold onto that and don’t let it go!! What a gift to a😌savor all that we cannot see when we’re moving too fast! 😘
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Love the video of the hair evolution! 😆 I can imagine that the contrast of real life with the trail is a shocker to the senses. What appreciation you have for the simple, which we often take for granted in our society of more, faster, bigger, greater….. Hold onto that and don’t let it go!! What a gift to a😌savor all that we cannot see when we’re moving too fast! 😘
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